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Marriage Sponsor Ministry

St
Francis Married Couple,
We would
like to invite you to join the St. Francis Marriage Sponsor Ministry. As
a Marriage Sponsor Couple
you have the opportunity to share in the preparation process for Engaged
Couples who are aspiring to
the Sacrament of Matrimony. We become partners with the
Priest/Deacon/Staff in creating the journey to
the understanding of the vocation of Marriage.
John Paul II said that “the Catholic Church must do more
to encourage lasting marriages. While many couples today have a clear
understanding of the secular nature
of marriage some appear to lack a proper understanding of the
intrinsically religious dimension of this covenant.
Modern society
rarely pays heed to the permanent nature of marriage. In fact, the
attitude toward marriage found in contemporary culture demands that the
church seek to offer better premarital instruction.
A “Sponsor Couple” is:
A married
couple trained to assist a couple preparing for marriage by helping them
reflect upon the realities of married life.
Mission:
As a married couple we ask you to share your time and
relationship with an Engaged Couple. Your life and experience become a
sign and example to the other couple. Your life is the fundamental
preparation for the ministry that we are asking you to join. Most
Marriage Sponsor Couples find the experience not only adds to the
Engaged Couple’s preparation but also strengthens their love for each
other. You show Christ in the married vocation and family life in a
world that does not see the value of committed love and the
possibilities for sanctity in living God’s command to love one another.
Training Required:
Are we
qualified to teach Engaged Couples about marriage?
The first
and foremost point is that our lives and our married vocation are the
experience and credentials that we bring to this ministry. This is what
the Holy Spirit uses.
The Prophet
Jeremiah did not think he was equipped to speak God’s truth. God told
him that He placed His words in Jeremiah’s mouth; “Have no fear“. Each
of you has had experiences that left you with this wonder. It is
important to understand that this is God’s Ministry and we are His
instruments. We do not carry the burden of achievement and success.
You are
already prepared for this ministry!
However,
you are not alone. We provide you with process manuals, meeting
outlines, activities and workbooks that will guide you through each
meeting that you have with the Engaged Couple. We will train you in the
use of the materials and are always willing to offer any assistance that
you may need in developing the relationship with your couple. As you
participate in the program you will come to understand that these
manuals and programs are only peripheral to your mission. Your
experience and relationship will be what the couple will treasure and
take away from the encounter. You are like the credit card in your
pocket: you are ready and all you need to do is make a phone call to be
activated.
Time Commitment:
What is the time commitment required of us?
We are all busy people. Most couples inquiring about this
ministry think in terms of meeting a schedule of some kind. They are
more interested when they hear that they schedule their own sessions;
around their own schedule; in their own homes; with the Engaged Couples
they sponsor. We usually have a three month time period to accomplish
the five Sponsor meetings. It is like having a job that you can do from
Marriage Sponsor Ministry
Contact
Name:
Richard & Bernice Hobday
Phone:
817-706-8813
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